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    Wednesday, June 24th, 2009
    10:32 pm
    инженер/архитектор?
    Может, кто-то знает.
    В связи с возникшими планами ремонта в доме... наш город(Stamford, CT) требует предоставить план/чертеж работ, которые будут производиться. Нам обьяснили, что это можно сделать, как угодно, типа, нарисовать картинку от руки... Может, ктото знает, есть ли люди, занимающиеся такими делами? И скоко такое дело стоит приблизительно... Строители, с которыми мы разговаривали, както не особо хотят этими чертежами/согласованием с городом заниматься.
    5:23 pm
    swine flu
    There is a case of a swine flu in my 50 people company they just told us today.
    Apparently the person who tested positive for it happened to infect a lot of people already.
    I don't work directly with this person but still...
    Hand sanitizers were placed on our floor and everybody is a bit paranoid now.
    Wednesday, May 27th, 2009
    9:40 am
    приглашение для Америк. консульства в Росссии
    Подскажите, пожалуйста, как написать приглашение для человека, которого я приглашаю в гости сюда из России. Насколько письмо должно быть формальным, что там должно быть вообще итд. Типа, скоко лет знакомы, почему едет в гости?
    Tuesday, May 26th, 2009
    11:04 am
    video from miniDV to digital format
    Does anyone know how to transfer video from miniDV to digital format?
    Digital camera has a firewire connection and my mac has it as well?
    What programs do I need on the mac?
    Update: worked like magic, firewire cable and iMovie was all that was needed.
    Monday, May 25th, 2009
    4:20 pm
    Tuesday, May 19th, 2009
    9:46 pm
    disturbing article...
    http://www.cnn.com/2009/US/05/19/minnesota.forced.chemo/index.html?iref=topnews
    and honestly, I don't know whose side I am on here.

    Current Mood: tired
    Thursday, May 7th, 2009
    10:51 am
    iPrompts
    D. is a colleague of mine and he has an autistic son. As a result of a couple of years of work he and his team just launched the iPhone app called iPrompts that helps children with special needs: autistm, ADHD
    Here's the product description!

    iPrompts is a software application for the iPhone and iPod Touch. Designed especially for parents, special educators and therapists, iPrompts allows for the presentation of customized picture schedules, "social stories," countdown timers and choice offerings to those with developmental and language impairments. The visual supports packed into iPrompts are used to help get those with special needs through the day.

    When we tested iPrompts with parents and therapists of children with autism, Down syndrome, ADD/ADHD and other special needs, they had some wonderful, confidence-inspiring things to say. A video of our focus group can be found on YouTube (click on the "HD" button to see it clearly).

    Here's the link to a video:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bETuOp5LNJk
    Sunday, April 26th, 2009
    1:30 pm
    update on schools
    after months of uncertainty we finally know our plans for September.
    (See here: http://evemaru.livejournal.com/150598.html)
    Last week we got an envite for Westover school which we accepted.
    There was no chances for Rogers/Environmental school us being number 53 there on the list.
    It's all good, I guess.
    1:11 pm
    кино кино
    ну как всегда Кислевский это хорошо. Пересмотрела "Короткий Фильм о Любви"
    Очень.
    Wednesday, April 8th, 2009
    10:54 am
    не перестаю поражаться
    НЙ город маленький. не перестаю поражаться, как все связано и переплетено.
    и это и ни хорошо, и не плохо. просто поразительно.
    вдруг возникают люди, как вспышка из прошлого, которых когдато мельком видел 15 лет назад гдето.
    Но никогда не забыл имя. (У меня слишком хорошая память на людей и лица)
    други евреи, с праздником Вас. (я ужасно неправильная, и ничего не отмечаю)
    Tuesday, March 24th, 2009
    4:28 pm
    Stamford public elementary school lottery: stats : year 2009
    Just went to the Stamford PS lottery for Sasha (entering K in Sept. 09)
    Here are some stats.

    Number of applications submitted for each school:
    (Note: this includes dups, some people applied to several schools in the same time, i.e. we applied to all four)
    Hart : 180
    Rogers 246?(296?)
    Toquam: 280
    Westover: 442

    Number of lottery seats For K available:
    Hart : 25 (they will have four K classes)
    Rogers: 62 (five K classes)
    Toquam : 52 (five K classes)
    Westover 50 (five K classes)


    We applied to all four schools, and ranked Westover 1st, Rogers 2nd, Toquam 3rd, and Hart 4th.
    I AGONIZED in February as to which school should be #1: Westover or Rogers. But the administrators at Stamford Public Schools Research office and several other people told me the chances of getting in Rogers are so small, that only having maybe #5 will do that. So, I placed Rogers 2nd. This is very confusing, the number of seats at Rogers through lottery as stated above is 62, then why didn't I place it first? anyway, I will be happy with Westover... Will wait for invitation letter.
    Our numbers

    1. Westover #10
    2. Rogers #47
    3. Toquam: #37
    4. Hart: #20

    EXCITED.

    Current Mood: excited
    11:10 am
    school lottery
    #10 at westover, #47 at rogers, #37 at Toquam, and #20 at hart!
    Hurray!
    Monday, March 16th, 2009
    4:29 pm
    доульское
    Сумашедший день какойто в плане доульства.
    Все расшевелились. Зимой было полное затишье (последняя клиентка моя была в октябре)
    Вселенная меня услышала. Сегодня ехала в машине, и думала, что соскучилась по родам, что пора бы уже...
    Только вроде все устаканилось дома.

    Сегодня... 4 зацепки на доульском листе (всем послала emails)
    Одна женщина ответила, и заинтересована. Рожает в конце июля.
    Это простотаки закод подлости, что все рожают в июле/августе, и придется мне как и в прошлом году мотаться туда/сюда неремеными темпами с дачи. Уфф. но все равно это здорово. Жду работы, жду драйва и эмоций!

    ДА, и еще один email мне пришел via Dona website, потенц. клиентка в апреле, рожает у нас в Стэмфорде.

    По статистике, больше всего родов как раз приходится на июль месяц.
    Monday, March 2nd, 2009
    3:20 pm
    movie worth seeing
    вчера посмотрели "Duchess".
    Очень рекомендую.
    Надо было конечно спать, ночь уже... но мы не могли оторваться.
    Прекрасные Keira Knightley и Ralph Fiennes
    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0864761/

    Мне этот фильм напомнил о любимом мною Формановском "Валмонте" (который все таки уже классика)
    Красиво, сексуально, драматично.
    1:19 pm
    Сашке 5!
    В пятницу Сашке исполнилось пять.
    Не поверить.
    Дальше длинный рассказ о праздновании и много фоток )
    Tuesday, January 27th, 2009
    10:44 pm
    a little medical revelation...and necessity of a second opinion in modern medicine
    Just came back from the third ENT appointment with Sasha.
    A little history:
    ENT #1 - saw us once only, suggested a sleep study after which called us with results,
    and suggested surgery (tonsils and adenoids to be removed),
    never looked/examined adenoids.

    ENT #2 - high profile doc in the city not taking our insurance - we had to pay out of pocket.
    reviewed the sleep study, didn't look/examined at adenoides,
    suggested a surgery (both adenoides and tonsils to be removed)

    ENT #3 - examined tonsils first and then got surprised that they were not enlarged at all. After that he went on with examining Sasha's adenoids. It was an unpleasant (for Sasha) but needed procedure from which the doc determined that her adenoids are completely covered with infection, he took the culture and is going to call us back within a week to treat this nasty bacterial infection with antibiotics. No surgery yet. I am relieved that at last there was someone who tried to get to the bottom of things. His plan is to treat the infection first and then see if the apnea/sleep/breathing improves. Her adenoids themselves are not huge/overgrown. But the issue here is that there is an inflammation/infection covering them? I am not completely understanding the picture but I visualize the organ covered with green yucky goo and that's enough for me. When infection is gone we will see what happens.
    According to him adenoiditis is very common especially in kids from Russian families (the doc sees a lot of these since he's practicing in downtown Brooklyn). I wonder why would that be.
    The question that I forgot to ask is... should we stop going to the swimming pool.
    And another rhetorical question: since when did she have it? how long has this been going on? scary thought...


    And the last but not the least, DO seek second and third opinion...

    My father was suggesting a year ago that we go and get ENT advice and we just did nothing at that time. My mom reminded me about this today and yeah, I felt guilty. (guilt is my poison these days I think). I remember when my parents were bugging me to check Sasha's ENT problems, and that I kept telling them what our pediatricians kept telling me: "it's just that time of the year", "they all get sick in the daycare"...

    Update: sent an email to the ENT #3 this morning asking about the swimming etc,
    to which he answered within an hour. New era...
    10:31 pm
    Friday, January 23rd, 2009
    12:45 pm
    every day ...
    every day when I am in the office I go downstairs in the cafeteria and order my custom salad:
    mixed greens and arugula, caramelized walnuts, spoon of dried cranberries, avocado, Parmesan,
    a little bit of shredded carrots, a drop of olive oil and a piece of turkey.
    This is something that I used to eat almost daily when I was working full time. never gets tiring or boring.
    life is good, life is green.
    11:52 am
    I am completely and utterly lost in choosing/ranking the schools
    Ok. here we go. Sasha starts kindergarden next year. We decided not to look into private schools and just
    go with Stamford PS system.

    We're choosing from a local school that we're assigned to and four magnet schools we can apply to.
    The process is the following.

    Stamford has four magnet schools to which you can apply and get into via lottery system.
    Every magnet school has their own "specialty".

    1. Local neighborhood school is 5 minutes walking distance and doesn't seem like a bad school but
    it's nothing to rave about, I will actually know more about it next week when I go for open house there.
    2. Westover Magnet School : quite a distance from home, about 15 minutes drive. This school is considered THE best elementary school in Stamford. A lot of people appply and so the chances are low.
    Parents rave about the school, they have great programs, a lot of personal attention to children's needs. Very good stuff. Concentration is on arts/music/drama etc. Staff is deeply committed to the idea that schools need to teach children THINK rather than pass the tests. With that said, their test scores are high.
    Every Kindergarten classroom has 2 teachers. Looping is used: same teacher in grades 1-2, and 3-4.
    Grouping is used: children are groups for math/reading into different groups by their abilities/level.
    Grouping is flexible and assessment is done frequently.
    Great administration in school: very organized, principal and vice principal especially are amazing.

    3. Toquam Magnet School: mixed reviews, school is very close, 5 minutes drive. They use Bank Street Model,
    this is a social studies school. My personal review from the open house I went to: the school didn't make a good impression, administration is poor in my opinion, the principal lacks enthusiasm and professionalism.

    4. Hart Magnet School: science and technology school. 10-15 minutes drive.
    very mixed student population (although this is more or less the same in other schools).
    Principal is amazing. School is small and they have the smallest Kindergarten classes in terms of number of children in class. I met several K teachers there and they made a good impression on me.
    A LOT OF special programs/clubs/etc

    5. Rogers School. Here's the most interesting school in my opinion(the farthest school, probably 20 minutes drive from us). I went there yesterday and I was blown away. Great presentation, sharp principal, great teachers and PTO. I haven't heard much about the school before, but they are an International Baccalaureate school. They have very unique program. The building they are in now is very old and rundown and the school is not in a great neighborhood.
    The classrooms are open - no doors etc. This is the first time I saw something like that in Stamford Public schools. They do loop children (1-2 grade and 3-4 grade have the same base teacher).
    The do group children by their abilities for math/inquiry/reading classes. The groups are flexible and
    they make sure that the kids that excel do not get bored. for example: they explained that for a group of 5th graders that are above 5th grade level they are using different program(teaching different material) than for everybody else. This school is moving to a completely new Environment Magnet school building next year, (in the same neighborhood, 20 minutes from us) and is going to be a DISTRICT magnet school from Pre-K to grade 8. I am not sure if that's good or bad to be in such environment. For the International Baccalaureate school they have to be certified with some organization in Geneva etc etc.
    I was wondering if any of you my friends know about the curriculum like that?


    My head is exploding with all this info and the decision making that needs to happen.
    I have to rate the magnet schools on my application. I have to do it by March 2nd.
    I am yet to go to our neighborhood school and see what's going on there.
    Yesterday me and Dima started looking at CMT(Connecticut Mastery Test results on https://solutions1.emetric.net/cmtpublic/index.aspx ) as a measure to compare schools.
    The question arises:
    Do I just compare the schools? this seems very general to me.
    Then do I just need to group by the ethnicity/advantaged/disadvantaged/special/non-special add/subsidized lunches/not scores.

    Ok, then I will see what scores middle class families children have within the schools.
    But is that better? If the children are grouped then it's one thing, and then yes, I can assume
    that my child is going to be studying with the group that is kinda her level.
    And do I take into consideration the ethnicity distribution within the school?
    E.g. some schools have 38% white population, some %59.
    can I believe this statistics?
    Yesterday at Rogers school I saw a lot of white kids, although the stats have only 28% there.
    Working with numbers myself and not trusting the numbers...
    Should I go with my gut feeling?
    Damn, it's so difficult to make the decision.
    Tuesday, January 13th, 2009
    5:36 pm
    как-то не логично
    при всех трудностях семейной жизни, и не простой экономической ситуации, и вообще, беспокойстве в мире,
    хотеть третьего... а хочется. не логично. а хочется. странная женская сущность.
    когда смотрю на мамочек с тремя и больше в магазине или на улице умиляюсь... это при том, что я с двумя вместе вообще редко где бываю, если рядом нет няни или мужа.
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